Having trouble texting messages that make him want you even more?
Do you think that your love life is suffering because you just don’t know the right formula to rock the texting and make him miss you and want you?
Believe me, it’s not that much of a science.
Men are really simple creatures and there is some advice on how to hook them and make them yours.
They all fall for the same things.
They all fall for confidence and dynamic texting that stirs up their imagination.
You don’t even have to talk dirty or maybe do something you feel uncomfortable with.
There are much simpler ways to get his attention, subtle ways of sending sexy texts that will drive him crazy.
Men love the feeling of the chase and through sending ambiguous messages that make their imagination run wild, you’re giving them exactly what they want.
This will hook them on you and they won’t leave until they have you and that is exactly what you want, right?
Sending sexy text messages is even more perfect if you are in a long-distance relationship.
He is far away from you and the truth is that it’s so hard to keep the spark alive.
No matter how hard you try to be a part of his life, there is the possibility that he is getting even more distant because you’re not there.
Sending naughty texts is just perfect for that situation.
Send them everyday.
Use that time to remind him why he is crazy about you and believe me, he will imagine he’s touching and kissing every inch of your body as if you were there.
Of course, this text messaging doesn’t only refer to people who are in a relationship.
It also refers to people who have just started dating or are chasing one another—you know, that first stage of thrilling excitement where you’ve done nothing physical so far, but you’re insinuating it.
But before we get started, here are some tips on how to act while sending text messages that will make him want you:
1. Don’t write too much
Have you ever heard of the one ‘less is more’?
Write about what you have. Don’t write essays because you’ll bore him and he’ll simply lose interest in you.
Keep your sexy texts short! A guy you just started dating or you’re considering dating is not interested in your life story.
He is interested only in you at that particular moment.
Also, you should write ambiguous texts that leave him a lot of space to ask questions because as long as he is asking questions, your conversation will last.
When he runs out of questions to ask, your texting is over.
2. You have to be confident
That stupid rule that you have to wait until he texts you first is not going to work.
Who says that men don’t like it when women show a bit of initiative?
Well, they do, so get yourself together and find the courage to text him first in a flirty and charming way.
The important thing is that you have to flatter him in your first text. Write something that will get his attention and that will make him see you in a different and confident light.
3. You have to know when to end the conversation
Don’t force it because it will get uncomfortable for both you and him.
If you see that he’s answering in shorter lines or if it takes him a while to answer back, he’s probably had enough.
Don’t force the conversation to continue because it’s just pointless.
And a tip for finishing the conversation: Once again, keep it simple and wrap the conversation up in a way to leave him wanting more. Keep him intrigued in what you have to say next.
4. Don’t ask him out first
I know I’ve said that you have to show confidence and sometimes make the first move, but that was only for the texting part.
Don’t do it if you want to go out with him. If he likes you, he will make the first move, especially if you’ve already texted him first.
If you ask him out right away, you may come across as pushy which can even scare him off.
Also, if your texting is going in the right direction, it’s just a matter of time before he asks you out.
Just be patient!
5. You should compliment him
Men love to be flattered although they will never admit it.
They love compliments as much as women do.
I mean, who wouldn’t like honest recognition of an effort you’ve put in, let’s say, your clothes or something you did?
Remind him how handsome he is or how his arms are strong.
But, you have to be careful not to overdo it because he’ll think you’re not being honest.
Just a bit of complimenting can go in the direction of flirting and then you’re on the right track to make him want you.
6. You have to stay true to yourself
Don’t pretend to be something you’re not because he’ll find it out sooner or later.
No one can act being something they are not for so long.
Sooner or later the masks are going to fall and then it would be questionable whether he will like the real you.
So, the proven and the safest way is just to be yourself.
If he doesn’t like it, then you really don’t have anything to do with him in the first place. Don’t waste your time trying to change his mind because that’s not going to happen.
Instead, use that time to let the right guy find his way to you.
Okay, now that you’ve got the basics on how to behave while texting someone you want to intrigue and seduce, we can move on to actual text messages that will make him want you.
They don’t have to be extremely dirty or kinky to get his attention. They can be cute, funny and sexy.
But, to be fair, we’ll cover all of these fields so you are ready for every situation at hand.
Texting can be a fantastic platform for getting to know a guy you’re dating. But pay attention to his behavior rather than putting all your focus on how to text him to keep him interested. Is he initiating a lot of your conversations? Does he reply quickly? Are his answers terse or more in-depth? Does he ask you questions?
But don’t just analyze his texts. Is he also making an effort to see you in person? If he’s not, you have what amounts to a pen pal. If you’re texting and texting with no plans in sight, be a Sexy Confident lady and ask him out. If he makes excuses, this guy has no intention of meeting you. He’s in it to get his ego stoked by your amazing texts.
Work on making your texts flirty and appealing, but don’t rely on them solely to hold up your relationship. The longer you date, the more phone calls and meetups you should have.
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Here are some Text messages that will make him want you…
1 I love it when my roommate’s gone because I never have to wear clothes.
2. I want to show you how much I love you.
3. All I’ve thought about all day is your mouth.
4. I’ve always wanted to try rock climbing! Now that I know an expert, wanna be my instructor?
5. I find it incredibly sexy that you’ve been patient with me about taking things slowly. Trust me, I’m worth the wait!
6. Congrats. You’ve leveled up. I won’t be holding back the next time I see you. Prepare yourself!
7. I’m dirty and I’m going to have a shower. And when I come back I want you to make me dirty again.
8. “I’ll be wearing only heels tonight.”
9. I’ve been daydreaming all day long… you and me naked moaning and sweaty…got anything to add to that vision?
10. Hope you’re rested, cause you’re gonna need every ounce of energy you can find tonight.
11. You have no idea how much I want you right now…not to mention how I want you…and where I want you.
12. Everything about you turns me on, you’re all I can think about!
13. Tell me 3 things that make you the most excited…I’ll make sure you get at least 2 out of 3…Deal?
14. Confession: I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there was someone to do it . . .
15. I’m dying to find out if you are as good in real life as you are in my fantasies.
16. I know you’re not a wizard, but I think your mouth is pretty magical. I can think of a few places I want it right now. Wait, maybe you ARE a wizard.
17. You look great today. How do I know? Because you look good every day.
18. I would invite you to come over this weekend, but I’m not sure I can keep my hands to myself.
19. Just read that caffeine can boost a woman’s libido. Is that why you keep inviting me to coffee?
20. Just wanted to text you that I am lying naked on the bed thinking about you.
21. I had a dream last night about you and me moaning and sweating with sexual pleasure. Just wanted to ask if you could stay in my bedroom tonight to make my dream come true!
22. Tonight I want you to undress me slowly with your muscular touch and bite every inch of my body with no inch left untouched.
23. I love the touch of your lips when we kiss. I love the rub of your sexy hips when we rub. I love the warmth of your breath on my neck when we hug.
24. Can you text me the details of what you will do to me tonight when you sleep next to me? The excitement and anticipation of spending the night with you are driving me wild and crazy.
25. Could you please come to my place and unhook my bra for me?
26. Just wanted to tell that my new red underwear feels really good and sexy on my skin. I would show it to you if you were here now.
27. All my friends told me they wish they had a guy like you.
28. I’m on cloud nine when I’m around you.
29. I don’t know how you manage to put up with all my craziness, but thank you.
30. Someone told me that they saw me with a sexy, strong man the other day. Do you happen to know who it was? 🙂
31. I’m in need of cuddles and kisses, you’re the only one who can do that.
32. I’m asking myself right now, do you even exist. I mean, can someone like you be real?
33. See, I don’t like this, you’re too far away. If I could, I would be in your arms right now.
34. Why don’t you come over later, I bought a new bra. I need someone’s second opinion.
35. When you get home, you’d better be ready for me.
36. Can’t stop thinking about the other day/night.
37. Would you be mad if I made out with a girl?
38. What would you like me to wear to bed tonight?
39. What would you say if I suggested that we spend all of Saturday in bed?
40. I’m hungry. I want to savor every inch of you till you fill me up.
41. You and I, naked sweaty and moaning. Got anything to add to that?
42. Just saw something really hot and it made me think of you.
43. I just had the dirtiest thought about you ever. Too dirty to text – I’ll tell you later.
44. I just had a fun idea of what we can do later tonight.
45. I’m totally craving some time with you right now.
46. Work is stressful today. Can we blow off some steam tonight?
47. Don’t worry about wearing a nice outfit tonight. You won’t need it.
48. All I want you to do tonight is lie back and relax. I’ve got some stuff planned.
49. Just thinking about you makes my whole body feel good.
50. I miss the way your arms feel when they’re around me.
51. Do you think my boobs are too big to not wear a bra?
52. Just so you know, I’m usually much better behaved.
53. Have I ever told you about this weird fantasy I have?
54. Sorry, you’ve had a hard week. Come over and I’ll give you a massage. After that, who knows?
55. I wouldn’t mind giving you a love bite today.
56. My favorite place to sit is on your face and…
57. I am sitting on the kitchen counter thinking about you between my legs.
58. I was looking at sex toys today.
59. Currently, I’m sending you texts using only one hand because the other one is busy doing something else. Can you guess what it is?
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